IC Family Ministry
Building the Domestic Church
According to the Second Vatican Council’s Dogmatic Constitution on the Church: “The family, is so to speak, the domestic church” (Lumen Gentium #11). This means that it is in the context of the family that we first learn who God is and to prayerfully seek His will for us. In the following bullet points you will find some suggestions on how to build your “domestic church” through a life of prayer that can help all the members of your family.
* Begin praying as a family and reading from Scripture daily, certainly before meals, but also first thing in the morning or before bed. Find a time that works for your family. Use the liturgy of the Church as a model for prayer, and try to include heartfelt unstructured prayer as well.
* Pray a Family Rosary (each member leads a decade, and everyone shares intentions).
* Have a crucifix in a prominent place in the home, and in every bedroom.
* Make the Sacraments a regular celebration – take the whole family to Confession and Mass!
* Begin family traditions based on the seasons celebrated in the liturgical calendar.
* Make your vacation a holy pilgrimage by visiting the shrines and saints of our land and the world.
* Make worshiping God a priority. Never miss Mass, even while traveling – go to www.MassTimes.org to find a church near you!
* Teach stewardship and charity to your children, through word and example.
* Demonstrate love for your spouse, your children, your neighbors, and the world.
* Remind their children that they are loved by God and have been given gifts to serve others.
* Talk freely about the presence of God in the joys and sorrows of your life.
* Welcome into your home and support priests, brothers, sisters, deacons, and lay ministers in the Church.
* Participate in the lay ministries and activities of your parish community.
* Allow your children to witness you in private prayer. Encourage your children to pray daily on their own, to listen for God’s call, and if heard, to respond.
Consecration to the Holy Family
To help families live out the joy of Christ, Supreme Chaplain Archbishop William Lori has composed a prayer through which families will come together to consecrate themselves under the protection of the Holy Family. In this prayer, we ask for the aid or intercession of the perfect son Jesus Christ, Mary the perfect mother, and Joseph who is a model for every father. Councils will guide their parishes and community to understand and offer this prayer. Preparing for the Consecration to the Holy Family is not a single event. It is choosing a way of life for your family. Through this consecration, each participant is consciously choosing to be a beacon of God’s love through His Church.